Thu. Dec 19th, 2024

Moving up a year increases anxiety and stress for children

  • As the new school year approaches, anxiety levels are on the rise
  • Well over a quarter (28%) of children feel stressed starting a new school and 42% feel apprehensive about moving up a new school year
  • One in five (19%) children fear they will worry others if they were to reach out for help, and 14% are unsure how to express their feelings

As the new academic year kicks off, young people across the UK are feeling the pressure. New research from Bupa reveals that a quarter (25%) of 8-18-year-olds experience stress every week, with starting a new school ramping up stress levels for 28%.

Anxiety is spiking, with 42% of kids feeling apprehensive about stepping into a new school year, especially those making the leap to secondary school (11 year olds), where the figure jumps to 53%.

The research shines a light on a generation struggling with stress, loneliness and anxiety. More than one in ten (13%) children feel lonely every month and nearly two in five (39%) are worried every week. Yet, despite these challenges, many young people are reluctant to share their struggles. One in five (19%) fear they will place a burden on others, and 14% simply don’t know how to express what they are feeling.

When it comes to coping mechanisms, young people often turn to familiar outlets for comfort rather than reaching out. Almost a third (32%) find solace in music, while just over a quarter (26%) escape through video games.

Help for Parents

For parents, creating an open dialogue about emotions is crucial, yet many feel unprepared to do so. Nearly two thirds (59%) of parents don’t feel confident in their abilities to address mental health with their children.

During a stressful time such as back to school week, parents need to find the confidence to talk and crucially listen says Dr Naveen Puri, Medical Director for Bupa UK Insurance:

“Stress and anxiety among young people are sadly all too common, with pressures coming from every direction—school, friendships, social media. Back-to-school week often brings added stress and heightened anxiety, especially for those starting at a new school. It’s essential to create a safe space for children to express their feelings. Sometimes, simply listening and being there can make a huge difference.”

To support parents, Bupa has created a parent’s guide offering practical advice and tools on how to approach the topic of mental health with their children. Additionally, if parents want a fun and engaging way to encourage open dialogue – activities such as Chatter Box Cards could be a good start. Bupa has also produced new interactive videos with mental health platform JAAQ (Just Ask a Question) to help parents have these important conversations.

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By Penny McCarthy

Penny McCarthy is a seasoned entrepreneur and co-founder of Parents News UK, a pioneering publication launched in 1993 to serve the needs of busy parents in Southwest London. Alongside her husband, Fergus McCarthy, Penny played a crucial role in the rapid expansion of the printed edition, which grew from a local startup to a widely circulated monthly publication with a reach of 192,000 copies across Kent, South London, and beyond. Under Penny’s leadership, Parents News quickly became a trusted resource for families, providing valuable information on education, entertainment, sports, and family-friendly events. Her vision helped the publication extend its influence with franchises in Northern Ireland and Cornwall, catering to a growing demand for accessible, family-oriented content. In 1997, recognising the importance of digital media, Penny spearheaded the launch of Parents News UK Online. The website initially mirrored the content of the printed editions and has since evolved into a comprehensive online resource for parents, achieving significant popularity with up to 700 daily hits. In 2017, the publication transitioned fully to an online platform, continuing to inform and engage families across the UK. Today, Penny remains deeply involved in the ongoing success of Parents News UK, focusing on innovative advertising opportunities and future growth plans. Her dedication to supporting families through accessible and practical content has made Parents News a cherished name in households across the country.

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